My Boomer Tips
Theres this neighbor of mine who has a friend, and a lot of times when i go to this neighbors house on friday nights, a friend is there and i think im a little attracted to him. hes irish so hes got that awesome accent and hes funny and we have the same favorite tv show we love chatting about it. He is divorced though, since a few years ago, and hes 50 I think and Im 20. I feel bad because of the age but ive always liked much older guys and he looks younger, maybe like 45.
Anyways, it seems like maybe he is hitting on me because all the time I go there, hes always touchy feely with me, and he seems really happy im there, he doesnt waste anytime going up to me and puts his hands on my shoulders and arms, and compliments me saying "well look at this beautiful girl" and compliments my hair and things like that. at first i felt it was inappropriate and felt he was too touchy feely but then i realized that i like it and it felt good
And one time im passing under a street lamp near the house and as im walking under it he goes "can you just stand there under that light like that?"
and another time i am at work, and then hes there shopping and he sees me and he touches my shoulder like hes in shock and says "well look at you! dont you look beautiful"
and i felt awkward this one time watching tv with him since a male enhancement commercial came on and he went "those pills will make me the size of a black guy" and it felt really awkward haha
and i love it how when he leaves he says "bye darling" or "bye sweetie"
anyways, what should i do? is he flirting or just being nice?
also hes not there every friday so when i dont catch him im upset....so should i email him? i dont know if i can wait two weeks to see him. i know its a huge age difference, but i really cant help it
The thing is when he first put his arms around my shoulder it felt so good!! ive never felt that with any other guy that i liked before, its weird.
also, i want to do this, because ive been asked out a few times before but its always young guys like 20s or whatever, and i cant stand guys my age i like them older!!
by the way, i am neither desperate nor a gold digger. he is an average middle class working guy, and his maturity and certain things about him appeal to me, trust me guys around his age are 10 times more appealing to me then any guy around my age, and i really cannot help it as ive tried to like guys my own age.
im 20 and havent had a bf or a kiss or anything yet and its mostly from my shyness but not asking out guys because the ones i like are way older. so i think its time i do what i want right? i mean im not thinking its gonna end up in marriage but i like him and want to date someone i want for once! i want to see where things go..
we really hit it off, we like a lot of the same stuff like the same exact shows and stuff it was nice to find someone to relate to like this. now obviously he is much older than me with much more experience but i love older guys and feel im an old soul myself, obviously not as mature but im not a typical 20 year old girl, a lot whom just want to party or whatever, from my experience, just people my age dont interest me i cant relate
should i contact him? i have butterflies right now
