I'm so damn confused!!! I don't know what to think..or do..Please don’t answers if your going to be Rude
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I have been talking to this Guy for 5months & I assume he really likes me because of the way he talks to me. He always says “Thinking about you baby” & missing you baby & we usual send Emails to each. I was always there to support him when he was over in Iraq. I have always tried to be a Good friend since he was in the army, I just saw it as a “friendship.” but he then asked me out on a date and I said yes but things have changed now since Im going overseas my grandmother is ill. I told him that I was going he was upset about it since we were both waiting to see each other. He also knows that I have many guy friends that wanted to date me too. & I think he got jealous since the other night he got really “Drunk and he wouldn’t stop texting me these messages saying
(“were are you baby”) but his in a different state right now visiting his Mom. & he would not stop sending me theses text message it was 1:am and I got sick of it so I
“CALLED HIM UP” asking him what was wrong? With him. He just said that he wanted to see what I was up too.& what I was doing and if I was single? And if I was “married” he said he wanted someone to love him and woman to chase after him. and he said why don’t you want to see me any more do you have a Boyfriend are you married and I said No. but he was too “Drunk to understand” what I was saying and he was really messed up, however the Next day I called him up because I was concerned about him and we worked everything out. and he was sorry Then a few hours later he sent me a Text Message saying “Missing you baby” and I Just want to say I can’t wait to see you. that’s what he said and from then on he usual sends me text messages asking me how I am but when I reply back he wont answers so Im cool with that but today was his birthday so I sent him this really cute poem this what I said: Side by side or miles apart Im thinking of You, God gave a gift to the world when you were born right now, on your Birthday day I wish You a very joyful day Should you want someone to rely on; I'll always be here for you. I wish you the happiest of birthdays, because you mean so much to me, happy birthday sweetie. May each new birthday be the best one ever, thinking of you on this Very Special day From Victoria xox but he did not reply. Im cool with that too But I just don’t understand what’s happing anymore does he like me or should I just forget him Im so confused about everything and I have be so honest with him and I just feel like crap please help me because Im so miserable, I like him But I just don’t understand what he wants anymore and why he does this and were both 21
And Sorry for writing a lot and for My bad spelling I really Need help I just cant work this out
Well I saw you posted this question before so obviouslly your stressing. Listen first the distance is killing your chances with him and most of the time it does in relationships. I’m in my late 20′s and even living 45 minutes from my ex caused issues lol, not as big as yours but we were able to work that out. Anyways nothing is going to be solved through txting or calls. Your going to have to come to conclusions face to face. So my best advice. Stop torturing yourself with the emails,txting,and phone calls. If there is a time eventually you two meet in person then thats when your going to get your answers. Yahoo answers or anything else is not going to help until you two get together. Just looking at this from the outside it looks like he’s into you, at the very least as a good friend but could be more you never know. So move forward living your life and if he’s around when you return and you two can meet up, than it’s meant to be. From that poem you wrote sounds like you have faith, so why not just let life take it’s course. Good luck!
tell him how you feel.